什么是規(guī)則？

規(guī)則是分?jǐn)?shù)，是底線，更是人品。

古人云：“沒(méi)有規(guī)則，就不會(huì)三元。”" "

人生在世，與人交往，修養(yǎng)，處處離不開(kāi)規(guī)則。

What are the rules？

Rules are discretion，the bottom line and character。

The ancients said :' no rules，no radius . '

Life in the world、communication with people、self-cultivation和everywhere is inseparable from rules。

規(guī)則是一種分?jǐn)?shù)

Rules are a measure

古人云：“過(guò)猶不及”，“物極必反”。

處世方面，分寸感尤為重要。

生活中有些人不深不淺，不讀書(shū)，不卑不亢，也不能正確認(rèn)識(shí)。(莎士比亞)。

總是把口無(wú)遮攔當(dāng)成性格的坦誠(chéng)，說(shuō)話不分場(chǎng)合，不分輕重，令人難堪。(莎士比亞)。

完全沒(méi)想到不考慮別人感情的話最終會(huì)給自己埋下禍根。(莎士比亞)。

這種人無(wú)論走到哪里都會(huì)厭倦和被拋棄。

《增廣賢文》云：

“嘴角留下半句話，事情近在眼前，讓出3分。飽經(jīng)世故，不開(kāi)口，人情淡泊，但點(diǎn)頭?！?

和別人聊天，話題再好也不愿意喋喋不休，發(fā)言太長(zhǎng)，只會(huì)減少聊天的樂(lè)趣。

言行失分只會(huì)暴露自己的淺薄和傲慢。

長(zhǎng)篇大論不如到現(xiàn)在，高傲并不如簡(jiǎn)單明了的話。(威廉莎士比亞、哈姆雷特、長(zhǎng)篇大論、長(zhǎng)篇大論、長(zhǎng)篇大論)

“沉默是金”，適時(shí)的沉默是修養(yǎng)，更是境界。

The ancients said，' too much is better than too little ' and ' when things reach the extreme，they will turn back '。

In dealing with the world，a sense of discretion is particularly important。

In life、some people are not deep、do not understand、neither humble nor arrogant和nor understand properly。

he always takes his open mouth as his straight forward character . he never talks on any occasion and is unimportant，which is embarrassing。

As every one knows，words that ignore the feelings of others will eventually bury a curse for themselves .

such people will be bored and despised wherever they go。

曾光仙文says:

Leave half a sentence to your mouth，and let three points when things come to an end；Be worldly minded，speak less，see through human feelings，but nod。'

When talking to people，no matter how good the topic is，it is also taboo to chatter。if you speak too long，it will only reduce the internet

If you lose your sense of propriety，you will only expose your vulgarity，shallowness and arrogance。

A long speech is better than a point，and a long talk is better than a concise and comprehensive speech。

' Silence is golden '。timely silence is not only self-cultivation，but also a realm .

規(guī)則是一種底線

Rules are a bottom line

「韓非

子》有云：“懸衡而知平，設(shè)規(guī)而知圓?！?p>

人生在世，規(guī)矩，是每個(gè)人心中不可或缺的一把尺子，里面藏著一個(gè)人的底線與原則。

底線，是人與畜生之間的臨界點(diǎn)。

一個(gè)人若是失去道德底線，便與披著人皮的低等動(dòng)物無(wú)異。

這樣的人，會(huì)因?yàn)楦F，做出傷天害理之事，也會(huì)因?yàn)榭啵鲫庪U(xiǎn)狡詐之心。

日復(fù)一日，昧著自己的良心賤賣底線，讓自己的人生步入黑暗的死胡同。

作家馮驥才說(shuō)：

“一個(gè)人只有守住底線，才能獲得成功的自我與成功的人生?！?/p>

毫無(wú)底線的人，哪怕?lián)碛械脑俣?，也注定是失敗者?/p>

相反，那些始終堅(jiān)守底線的人，就算一窮二白，在精神上，也是富可敵國(guó)的。

中國(guó)第一位田園詩(shī)人陶淵明才華橫溢，卻徘徊于仕與耕之間，后來(lái)干脆歸隱田園。

這一切，源于他不愿意打破自己的底線。

陶淵明清正廉明，從不攀附權(quán)貴，也絕不阿諛?lè)畛小?/p>

而是選擇一生堅(jiān)守原則，把才華賦于詩(shī)中，流芳百世。

人活于世，心存底線，方可一生坦蕩，一世清白。

"Han Feizi" said: "hang balance and know flat, set rules and know round."

In life, rules are an indispensable ruler in everyone's heart, which hides a person's bottom line and principles.

The bottom line is the critical point between man and beast.

If a man loses his moral bottom line, he is no different from a lower animal in human skin.

Such a person, because of poverty, will do harm to nature and justice, but also because of suffering, will have a sinister and cunning heart.

Day after day, he sold the bottom line against his conscience and let his life enter a dark dead end.

Writer Feng Jicai said:

"Only by holding the bottom line can one obtain a successful self and a successful life."

People who have no bottom line, even if they have more, are doomed to be losers.

On the contrary, those who always stick to the bottom line, even if they are poor, are spiritually rich.

Tao Yuanming, China's first pastoral poet, was brilliant, but wandered between official and farming. Later, he simply retired to the countryside.

All this stems from his unwillingness to break his bottom line.

Tao Yuanming is clean and honest. He never clings to powerful people or flatters them.

Instead, he chose to stick to the principle all his life and give his talent to poetry, which will last forever.

Only when people live in the world and have a bottom line in mind can they be magnanimous and innocent all their life.

規(guī)矩，是一種人品

Rules are a kind of character

白巖松曾說(shuō)：

“人品是最高的學(xué)位，德與才的統(tǒng)一才是真正的智慧，真正的人才?！?/p>

有才不如有德，有錢(qián)不如有品。

曾國(guó)藩的弟弟曾國(guó)荃滿腹經(jīng)綸、能力非凡，可惜他是一個(gè)有才無(wú)德之人。

他本可以憑借自己的能力闖出一番天地，卻選擇貪贓枉法，導(dǎo)致被朝廷解雇。

像上面曾國(guó)荃因心術(shù)不正耽誤了前程的事情并非個(gè)例，生活中，這樣的事情數(shù)不勝數(shù)。

前途一片光明的工程師楊某，為了省錢(qián)，逃票480次后被警方刑事拘留，一生盡毀。

再?gòu)?qiáng)的能力，在人品面前，也不值一提。

古人云：“上善若水，厚德載物?！?/p>

為人規(guī)矩，品行自然端正，就算前路再窄，也能越走越寬。

相反，那些一門(mén)心思走捷徑的人，遲早會(huì)斷送在自己的心機(jī)里。

無(wú)視規(guī)矩的人，注定寸步難行。

Bai Yansong once said:

"Character is the highest degree, and the unity of virtue and talent is the real wisdom and talent."

Virtue is better than talent, and quality is better than money.

Zeng Guofan's younger brother Zeng Guoquan is full of knowledge and extraordinary ability. Unfortunately, he is a man of talent and no virtue.

He could have made a breakthrough with his own ability, but he chose to pervert the law and was dismissed by the imperial court.

It is not an example that Zeng Guoquan missed his future because of his improper mind. There are countless such things in life.

Yang, an engineer with a bright future, was criminally detained by the police for 480 times in order to save money.

No matter how strong your ability is, it's not worth mentioning in front of your character.

The ancients said, "goodness is like water, and virtue carries things."

Behave well and conduct naturally. Even if the road ahead is narrow, it can be wider and wider.

On the contrary, those who concentrate on taking shortcuts will sooner or later end up in their own tricks.

Those who ignore the rules are doomed to fail.

淮南子曰：

“矩不正，不可為方；規(guī)不正，不可為圓。”

國(guó)有國(guó)法，家有家規(guī)，生而為人，不可漠視規(guī)矩。

每個(gè)人的心中之尺，都應(yīng)該用來(lái)度量自己。

“仰不愧天，俯不愧人，內(nèi)不愧心”，每日三省，自我完善，才是對(duì)生命的尊重。

Huainan Confucius said:

"If the moment is not correct, it cannot be square; if the gauge is not correct, it cannot be round."

The state has its laws, and the family has its rules. You are born a man. You can't ignore the rules.

The ruler of everyone's heart should be used to measure himself.

"Worthy of heaven, worthy of man, worthy of heart", three provinces every day and self-improvement are the respect for life.