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Paul Hackshaw Follow

普洛斯

achieve every man ' s wet dream of having an Asian wife

they look after their figures and shape and rarely get fat

lone liness is decreased or eradicated

they are usually not assertive or aggressive or trying to compete with men

they know how to act and stay feminine .

優(yōu)點(diǎn)：實(shí)現(xiàn)了每個(gè)男人都有亞洲妻子的淫夢(mèng)，

他們很少注意自己的身材和體型而發(fā)胖。

你的孤獨(dú)感會(huì)減少或消除，
她們通常不武斷，不咄咄逼人，也不試圖與男性競(jìng)爭(zhēng)，
她們知道如何表現(xiàn)和保持女人味。
CONs
Language barrier and communication. unless she is a fluent English speaker there may be gaps in communication, or she may not know how to express herself. Things go unsaid or you miss the cues. Likewise if you dont speak Japanese well she is forced to use a second language all the time.
Japanese people are not overtly religious or devout. Nominally they are Buddhist and Shinto but there are few signs of abiding faith or actually believing in anything.
Younger ones esp millenials often have no idea how to cook,maybe just how to heat things up in the microwave.
A majority of Japanese marriages are sexless. Expect things to cool down in the bedroom.
Many wives control the family budget and give their husband an allowance. This is a foreign and alien concept to Western men.

缺點(diǎn)：語言障礙讓你們難以溝通。除非她的英語說得很流利，否則在溝通上可能會(huì)有問題，或者她可能不知道如何表達(dá)自己的想法。問題沒有被她說出口，或者你錯(cuò)過了線索。同樣，如果你日語說得不好，她就不得不一直使用第二語言與你交流。
日本人不是很虔誠(chéng)。名義上他們是佛教徒和神道教信徒，但他們很少有持久信仰的跡象，或者實(shí)際上相信任何事情。
年輕一代尤其是千禧一代通常不知道如何烹飪，可能只知道如何用微波爐加熱食物。
大多數(shù)日本婚姻都是無性婚姻。期待臥室里的事情會(huì)讓你失望。
許多日本妻子控制著家庭的預(yù)算，給丈夫零花錢。這對(duì)西方男人來說是一個(gè)陌生的概念。
Children will sleep in the marital bed from birth onwards up until elementary school. Leaving a baby alone in a cot in another room is not done here.
If you have kids there is 99% chance she will quit work and not return to full employment. Be prepared to support a non-working or part time working wife and kids.
Some women, I have read, are bat shit crazy. Mental illness is often not treated here, so you might get someone who is depressed, paranoid, OCD, physically or emotionally abusive.
many dont travel well and have a hard time if living overseas for long periods, and will want to return to Japan or live there long term.

孩子們從出生到上小學(xué)都睡在夫妻床上。把嬰兒?jiǎn)为?dú)留在另一個(gè)房間的嬰兒床上是不妥當(dāng)?shù)摹?br/>如果你有孩子，她有99%的可能會(huì)辭職，并且之后不會(huì)恢復(fù)完全的就業(yè)。準(zhǔn)備好養(yǎng)活一個(gè)不工作或兼職工作的妻子和你們的孩子。
有些女人，我讀到過，非常瘋狂。這里通常不治療精神疾病，所以你可能會(huì)遇到抑郁、偏執(zhí)、強(qiáng)迫癥、身體或情感上施虐的人。
許多日本人不喜歡旅行，如果在海外生活很長(zhǎng)一段時(shí)間，他們會(huì)想要回到日本或長(zhǎng)期生活在那里。
George Sawyer Follow
What are the pros and cons of having a Japanese wife or girlfriend? Unless one of you is truly fluent in the other’s language, you will have communication problems forever.
Broad cultural generalizations:
1.Many people think Japanese women are submissive. Outwardly, they may be. They are as soft as silk, but the silk is wrapped around steel. Yin can overcome yang, and likely they will rule you. They will do it so gradually, and so gracefully you likely won’t notice for a long time.
2.FYI, in Japanese marriages, usually the women control all the money, all the spending, they give the husband his allowance.
3.Often a Japanese woman will choose a foreign husband as a way to leave Japan. Often a foreign man will choose a Japanese wife as a way to stay in Japan.
4.If you are married and living outside Japan, when your first child is born, one day your wife will be holding your child and will realize that unless your family lives in Japan your child will never be able to speak to their Japanese grandparents in Japanese. This often triggers a family move back to Japan.

有一個(gè)日本妻子或女友的利與弊是什么? 除非你們中的一個(gè)真的能流利地使用另一個(gè)人的語言，否則你們將永遠(yuǎn)有溝通問題。
廣泛的文化概括:
1.許多人認(rèn)為日本女性很順從。表面上看，可能是這樣。她們像絲綢一樣柔軟，但絲綢包裹著鋼鐵。陰可以戰(zhàn)勝陽，她們可能會(huì)統(tǒng)治你。她們會(huì)慢慢地做，很優(yōu)雅地做，你可能很長(zhǎng)時(shí)間都不會(huì)注意到。
2.供你參考，在日本的婚姻中，通常女性控制著所有的錢，所有的開銷，她們給丈夫零用錢。
3.通常，一個(gè)日本女人會(huì)選擇一個(gè)外國(guó)丈夫作為離開日本的方式。外國(guó)男人通常會(huì)選擇日本妻子作為留在日本的一種方式。
4.如果你結(jié)婚了，并生活在日本以外，當(dāng)你的第一個(gè)孩子出生時(shí)，有一天你的妻子會(huì)抱著你的孩子，并意識(shí)到除非你的家人生活在日本，否則你的孩子將永遠(yuǎn)不能用日語和他們的日本祖父母說話。這通常會(huì)促使一個(gè)家庭搬回日本。
JE Cook Follow
In a general sense, YMMV, Japanese girlfriends are wonderful for men who like attention, sexual fulfillment, planner, and fun. They are bad for men who are looking for a relationship equal, intellectually challenging partner, or a potential wife that remains the same as the ‘wonderful’ list. Pros of a Japanese wife are: household management, child care (if you have children with them), and they will let you have all the hobbies you want. Cons: They will want to return to Japan once they have children, you will become an income source for the household even more so with children in the house, you may feel betrayed by the significant behavioral change from girlfriend to wife, her family matters only and yours is tolerated / avoided, if you have children she views them as her exclusive property, not your children together and will likely slowly alienate them from you over time. Child abduction in Japan, or to Japan, is not an enforced crime. If / when she takes the children to Japan, they are gone forever and you will be erased from their lives.

一般來說，你的期望可能和現(xiàn)實(shí)不符，日本女友對(duì)于喜歡受到關(guān)注、性滿足、有規(guī)劃和樂趣的男人來說非常棒。對(duì)于那些想要找一個(gè)平等的、智力上對(duì)等的伴侶，或者想要一個(gè)與“完美”女友相同的潛在妻子的男人來說，她們是不好的。日本妻子的優(yōu)點(diǎn)是: 料理家務(wù)，照顧孩子(如果你和她們有孩子的話)，她們會(huì)讓你擁有所有你想要的愛好。缺點(diǎn): 一旦她們有了孩子，她們就會(huì)想要回到日本，你會(huì)成為家庭的收入來源，有了孩子以后更是如此，你可能會(huì)因?yàn)閺呐笥训狡拮拥男袨樽兓械奖撑?，她的家庭更重要，你的家庭是可以被容?忽視的，如果你有孩子，她會(huì)把他們視為她的專屬財(cái)產(chǎn)，而不是你的孩子，隨著時(shí)間的推移，可能會(huì)慢慢疏遠(yuǎn)他們。在日本，或者到日本誘拐兒童，不算實(shí)施犯罪。如果她帶孩子們?nèi)ト毡?，他們就永遠(yuǎn)消失了，你也會(huì)從他們的生活中被抹去。
The cultural training of woman in Japan has them fall in 3–4 roles that are mutually exclusive to the others. Girlfriend: carefree, intellectually inferior (not dumb, just subordinate) sexually active, beauty focused. Wife: serious, controlling, sexually restrained, trying to become ’mother’. Mother: matriarch and practical head of household, child enmeshed, sexually frigid, distant from husband. Old woman: child focused, vacation minded, trying to become grandma, waiting for grandpa to pass away to start ‘living’.
These are simple generalizations and miss the nuances that are part of any relationship. it is important to note that Japanese women tend to view marriage as a partnership or joint venture, not ‘love’ as many in the west do. ‘Love’ dies after children. You may love her immensely, but she won’t ‘love’ you back in any way you recognize from before.

在日本，對(duì)女性的文化培訓(xùn)讓她們扮演著3-4個(gè)相互排斥的角色。女友: 無憂無慮，智力低下(不是愚蠢，只是很順從)，性活躍，注重美貌。妻子: 認(rèn)真、有控制欲、性克制，試圖成為“母親”。母親: 女家長(zhǎng)和實(shí)際的一家之主，孩子糾纏不清，性冷淡，與丈夫疏遠(yuǎn)。老婦人: 專注孩子，享受退休生活，努力成為奶奶，等待爺爺去世開始“新生活”。
這些都是簡(jiǎn)單的概括，忽略了任何關(guān)系中都存在的細(xì)微差別。值得注意的是，日本女性傾向于將婚姻視為伙伴關(guān)系或合資企業(yè)，而不是像許多西方女性那樣認(rèn)為的“愛情”。有了孩子，“愛”就消失了。你可能會(huì)非常愛她，但她不會(huì)以你以前認(rèn)識(shí)到的任何方式來“愛”你。
Brian Burnside Follow
It is no picnic. I've been married to my wife for almost 25 years. I love her to death.
It doesn't matter if your wife is Japanese or American or European or whatever. They are first and foremost woman. They have wants and needs. Second, you married them because you loved them.
Japanese women can and do cheat like women from any other country. Actively love them and they will treat you well.
Don't seek a japanese wife unless you know the language and the culture. I had lived in Japan for a number of years and spoke Japanese. That said, I never dated a japanese woman in Japan. I met my wife in college through a blind date.
We eventually got married and had 4 wonderful kids together.
The challenges are that she will want to return to Japan from time to time. This costs a lot of money. Be prepared financially for this so it doesn’t affect your relationship.

這不是一件輕松的事。我和我妻子結(jié)婚快25年了。我愛死她了。
不管你的妻子是日本人、美國(guó)人、歐洲人還是其他什么人。她們首先是女性，她們有欲望和需求。第二，你和她們結(jié)婚是因?yàn)槟銗鬯齻儭?br/>日本女人可以像其他國(guó)家的女人一樣出軌。積極地愛她們，她們就會(huì)對(duì)你好。
除非你懂日語和日本文化，否則不要找日本妻子。我在日本住了幾年，會(huì)說日語。也就是說，我在日本從沒和日本女人約會(huì)過。我是在大學(xué)里通過相親認(rèn)識(shí)我妻子的。
我們最終結(jié)婚了，有了4個(gè)很棒的孩子。
問題是，她會(huì)時(shí)不時(shí)地想回到日本。這要花很多錢。在經(jīng)濟(jì)上做好準(zhǔn)備，這樣就不會(huì)影響你們的關(guān)系。
They generally have a different view on religion. If she cooks, she is going to do a lot of Japanese dishes. Great if you like Japanese cuisine, not so great if you don’t.
Then kids will have dual citizenship and you will need to get both Japanese and American passports.. not cheap.
If you don’t speak Japanese, you won’t be able to eavesdrop on her conversations. couples that speak each others language always eavesdrop. I speak Japanese, so it is no issue. Her friends will be Japanese as well. And they will speak in Japanese. If you don’t speak Japanese, then you won’t be part of the conversation. And you complaining about it is just selfish on your part. She put the effort in to learn English, you should have no complaints if you are too lazy to learn Japanese.
Then there are the creature comforts she will want from Japan. Clothing, Kotatsu, Food, Futon, Manga, etc. Not cheap in the U.S..
I don’t mind the expense at all. I love my wife and like to treat her to nice things.

她們通常對(duì)宗教有不同的看法。如果她做飯，她會(huì)做很多日本菜。如果你喜歡日本料理，那很好，如果你不喜歡，那就不太好了。
然后孩子就會(huì)有雙重國(guó)籍，你需要同時(shí)持有日本和美國(guó)護(hù)照。這并不便宜。
如果你不會(huì)說日語，你就不可能偷聽她的談話。說對(duì)方語言的夫妻總是會(huì)偷聽。我說日語，所以沒有問題。她的朋友也會(huì)是日本人。他們會(huì)說日語。如果你不會(huì)說日語，那么你就不會(huì)參與對(duì)話。而你對(duì)此的抱怨只能展示你自私的一面。她是努力學(xué)英語的，你要是懶得學(xué)日語就沒有什么可抱怨的。
此外，她還希望從日本獲得物質(zhì)上的舒適。服裝、小酌、食品、蒲團(tuán)、漫畫等。在美國(guó)這些并不便宜。
我一點(diǎn)也不在乎費(fèi)用。我愛我的妻子，我也喜歡給她好東西。
I live for her hugs and kisses. I am 6′ and she is like 4′9″. A serious height difference, but she is awesome. That means she puts a lot of things down low and I can’t find them a lot of the time…
And then there are the visa issues. Getting the green card and what not.
Most American-Japanese marriages end in divorce. I don’t recommend dating outside your culture unless you are willing to put in the effort to learn it.

我為她的擁抱和親吻而活。我6英尺，她4英尺9英寸。我們的身高差距很大，但她很厲害。這意味著她把很多事情低調(diào)處理，而我很多時(shí)候都找不到解決方法。
此外還有簽證問題，以及拿到綠卡之類的問題。
大多數(shù)美日婚姻以離婚告終。我不建議你和自己文化圈之外的人約會(huì)，除非你愿意付出努力去學(xué)習(xí)。